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4 Reasons Why You’re Still Single

It’s not a coincidence that you haven’t met your ideal partner.

Matt Lillywhite
4 min readFeb 19, 2020
Photo by Jonas Svidras on Unsplash

How often do you wish you were in a relationship?

If you’re anything like me, you dream of falling love, starting a family with your ideal partner, and loving each other unconditionally for the rest of your lives.

But despite your best efforts, you’re not having any luck when it comes to finding your ideal partner. Because no matter how much effort you put into meeting new people, nothing seems to work.

It sucks.

Over the years, I’ve discovered that it’s pointless complaining about not being in a relationship. So a better solution is to identify why you’re single, so you can make the necessary changes to improve your dating life. In the words of Zig Ziglar:

“When you change your thinking, you change actions, when you change your action, you change your future.”

So below are several reasons why you may be having a difficult time finding a relationship. Each one of these insights helped me to improve every aspect of my dating life, and I’m sure they will do the same for you, too.

You’re Afraid Of A Broken Heart.

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Matt Lillywhite
Matt Lillywhite

Written by Matt Lillywhite

Storyteller and part-time procrastinator. Writing to inspire, entertain, and avoid doing laundry. Substack: https://mattlillywhite.substack.com/subscribe

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