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How To Tell If Someone Has A Secret Crush On You

We’re often terrible at recognizing the signs of love.

Matt Lillywhite
4 min readJan 14, 2020
Photo by Kseniya Petukhova on Unsplash

Do you want to know how to tell when someone has a crush on you?

More specifically, do you want to learn how to recognize the signs of love so you can improve your dating life, and effortlessly connect with people on a meaningful level?

I thought so. Because when you know why people act & think a certain way, it becomes a lot easier to find common ground and create incredible relationships that last for a lifetime.

Over the past few years, I’ve found myself in the same position as you countless times. But I’ve discovered that when you’re able to recognize the common signs of love, people’s actions often speak much louder than words. Keri Hilson said it best:

“People may not tell you how they feel about you, but they always show you. Pay attention.”

So below are a collection of ways to tell if someone has a crush on you. Each of these insights helped me to improve every single one of my relationships due to a newly-found ability to recognize whenever someone had a crush on me. I hope they do the same for you, too.

They Laugh At Everything You Say.

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Matt Lillywhite
Matt Lillywhite

Written by Matt Lillywhite

Storyteller and part-time procrastinator. Writing to inspire, entertain, and avoid doing laundry. Substack: https://mattlillywhite.substack.com/subscribe

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