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5 Subtle Signs You’re More Attractive Than You Think

Here’s how to tell if other people find you attractive.

Matt Lillywhite
4 min readFeb 13, 2020
Photo by Avi Richards on Unsplash

For several years, I believed that nobody would find me attractive due to my average looks in comparison to everyone else.

So if you’re anything like me, you let the opinions of others get to your head, infiltrate your mindset, and make you feel unlovable in the eyes of other people.

But when you become surrounded by negativity, I’ve discovered that it’s easy to forget the qualities that would make you an ideal partner during a relationship. In the words of Marcus Aurelius:

“We all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.”

So below are several signs that you’re more attractive than you think. Each one of these insights helped me to improve my mindset while dating & focus on the positive characteristics that I currently have. I’m confident they will do the same for you, too.

You Have A Great Sense Of Humor.

Research shows that humor is vital to creating an attraction between two people. So if you can make someone laugh during a conversation, it’s probable that they’ll want to be around…

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Matt Lillywhite
Matt Lillywhite

Written by Matt Lillywhite

Storyteller and part-time procrastinator. Writing to inspire, entertain, and avoid doing laundry. Substack: https://mattlillywhite.substack.com/subscribe

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