How To Tell If Someone Is Attracted To You

Pay attention to what they do, as well as what they say.

Matt Lillywhite
3 min readSep 2, 2020
Photo: Karsten Winegeart/Unsplash

It’s incredibly difficult to tell if someone finds you attractive.

At least, that’s what I used to think. We spend a lot of time wondering if our crush likes us back. But for one reason or another, we often find it extremely difficult to recognize the signs of attraction.

If you’re anything like my past-self, that’s something which has crossed your mind. But I’ve discovered that the best way to find out if someone’s attracted to you is by learning how to recognize the signs.

So if you notice someone displaying any of these signs, it’s certainly a strong indication that they’re secretly attracted to you.

They Act Differently Around You.

“To the world, you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world.” — Brandi Snyder

When people fall in love, they play with their hair, look down at the ground, and act incredibly nervous because they’re overthinking everything they say and do. In case you hadn’t already guessed, all of those signs are cliches for a reason: they’re true.

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Matt Lillywhite

Full-time storyteller, part-time procrastinator. Writing to inspire, entertain, and avoid doing laundry. Substack: https://mattlillywhite.substack.com/subscribe