I grew up in the UK. Hated small talk so was frustrating in some social situations. Would much rather get to the point instead of dancing around it...
Traveling helped me to realize that I wasn't alone. Met some great people in Eastern Europe, Mexico, and others who also hated it. Often, it was something we bonded over - since many of the people I met studied in England/Canada/western countries.
Anyway, great article! Really insightful and interesting to hear your perspective.